In my whole life, i never thought I'm gonna reach a phase of which, I'm about to make a decision that will result to either black or white results. It's devastating :(
I'm not doing well these days due to some personal problems that could affect my whole life on the long run. It's soo painful for plans not to go accordingly, specially when you've set your mind and effort to it, better yet, set your daily routines to it. Which brings me to this, never plan anything until you're damn sure it's gonna come true.
I feel like writing and writing but again, it won't fulfill the agony I'm feeling deep within, or it's basically something you won't understand.
Just pray that i make it through with good will and intention and, be happy for eternity.
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you remind me of myself. Advice for life: never plan for more than a month. My perfect plan went down the drain when an unexpected event turned my life upside down
Exactly! These unexpected plans!
What should we do then? just give up?
Inshallah it will all work out exactly the way u want it
even if it dosent, inashala something ALOT better will result
و عسى ان تكرهوا شيئا و هو خير لكم
Don't know what to say other than good luck o0 Allah ekon eb 3onich. :/
The stupid proverb which says "if you fail to plan you plan to fail" is one of the most ridiculous and self contradicting proverbs on the planet.
You need to plan sometimes, but it isn't much about planning really as having a goal. Because things usually don't turn out like your plan, and you get devastated and then go replan and things... but what you should focus on is the goal rather than the path you take.
I have learned first hand that when you plan you are more often than not destined to failure.
I am a planner myself. I have laid out the next 20 years or so of my life right in front of me. But life does not work this way and now I am rethinking everything.
There was a quote I heard somewhere some time ago, can't really place it. But it says, "Life is what happens to you when you're busy making plans" it could be from some song's lyrics. I really cant remember.
The point is, take them as they come and don't be sooo rigid. Flexibility is key :)
Good luck and keep us posted!
eshda3wa,
Indeed.
Thank you 7bebty.
The criticizer,
Thank you, allah yekon eb 3on el jamee3 inshalla.
Kj,
We all have goals and thus, we must plan how to acheive them. Yet, they fail. But i liked what you said; looking at the goal rather than the path leading to it.
Kinan,
I'm a planner too! I can't help but think about the future, what's it gonna be and how's it gonna be :p
Thanks alot, will go by advice inshalla
I'm going through a phase now where I keep saying we're gonna die anyway so why care about anything. Think of it that way if you can grasp what I'm saying it will make things easier.
Good luck!
*missy hugs ms loala tightttttttt* NshaAllah everythig will be just fine ..
elijah,
Don't you wanna die happy? *wonders*
Missy,
owwww, that's so sweet. Thank you 7bebty :*
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