To ditch ...?

How do you ditch someone who you think is stalking you?

Well, I had this, i don't wanna say friend because we never did the things that friends supposedly do (i.e. hanging out, eating, studying, seeing and exchanging calls together) but she was a colleague in one of my classes. And as awkward as it seems, this class was in the College of Social Studies, ultimately, a non-compulsory class that i had to take in my junior year (4 years ago!!!). So basically, she and i are not in the same major and therefore, not in the same college.

We never said hi to each other or even smiled. Simply because i'm not fond of meeting people who share zero interest with me. Well of course we were in the same class but she and i are in different colleges which makes it kinda impossible to start a friendship. You know ... she was just another student.

Anyhow, the only time we "initiated human contact" :P was before our midterm. And right afterwards, by i don't know what forces, it gave her the green light to "et6aye7 el meyana". Fine, i'm cool with it, until she asked for my number. I'm fine with it too (though i hate giving my number to people i barely know and sure won't meet for good) and baaam, right after that bizarre exchange, she started flooding my phone with messages!

And as time moved on, and after i deserted that college for good, i deleted her number. We all do that don't we? god i just hate saving numbers to people i "believe" i will lose contact with. You should figure out by now that i'm not that social, oh well, specially to people who i don't have things in common with :P

Ok ok, so the bottom line is, she keeps sending me messages of how she spotted in this place and that place and how my looks had changed! And because i deleted her number, those kind of messages would cause me a heart attack! I ask who is this, she replies it's me ----- from the social studies class. I was like oh i'm sorry i lost my phone (the same lame excuse every body uses :P) and i go on not saving her number (better save a space for another name!) and consequently, memorize her number for upcoming messages.

Time also moves on, and i forget her number. But then, another baam, and my phone is flooded again and i ask who is this! The last time she replied seemed to me she was pretty fed up. She said: what's wrong? every time i send you messages you ask who's this?
How embarrassing lol :\

Poor girl. Get a life already! i'm starting to feel she doesn't have friends. Or probably one of those "really loyal friends" where they make you look bad or feel guilty or ashamed of being such an ignorant human being.

Conclusion, i don't wanna save her number! I'm short on memory space already. Besides, i hate keeping things which i see no use of!

Anybody encountered such thing?

23 Interruptions:

avocat said...

yepp unfortunatly i know exactly how u feel .. bs i did talk to her during class coz she kept asking these stupid/annoying questions claiming that she dsnt speak 3rabi .. 3aaa i hate her .. but i did save her number so that i'd ignore/not care abt her msgs ;p

Navy Girl said...

girl c'mon wala you made me laugh ! eee save her number oo whenever she send you anything dont reply she will get it ! :D

Anonymous said...

yes, Ignore

KJ said...

Stop picking the phone and stop replying - you only give her face by acknowledging her!

Ms Loala said...

Avocat,
lol, it seems i'll be doing the same thing :P
Welcome aboard.

Navy,
The problem is, i don't have enough space. Sometimes when i did save her number, i don't receive anything and when she does, akon mas7a raqamha!

Fayoora,
Ok

Kj,
I stopped replying the last time she sent me a msg .. good enough? :P

Anonymous said...

9ej 7asawiyah :PPPP

5oooo kelah number, add it to your list oo fuky 3omrech :P

kserat 5a6ry elbent :D

Hamza said...

Oh my God. I can so relate to you. ana 3atet wesh to someone and since that day, he is over-abusing my hospitality.

The only difference is that I can not deny him as it'll make me feel guilty. :(

Good luck. I don't know how can I help you

Anonymous said...

Ignore sissy

Ms Loala said...

Rekoo,
LOOOOOL xD
Yes! there are definitely elements of 7as7as in there ..


Hamza,
I can't deny hey either! As i said, it'll make me look as the bad girl and she's the good one :\

Cat,
lol, ok.
Welcome aboard ;)

Anonymous said...

save her number under the name "DON'T" LOOOL, and between loyal or non-friends. I think she's loyal =]

MacaholiQ8 said...

I've been in a similar situation once and I tell you, it's damn hard to get rid of those "parasites".

My advice, as everyone else said, just ignore. That's as long as she doesn't call you, if she does then you're screwed. :/

Bride To-Be said...

I've been there once .. it feels awful .. just ignore .. seriously ..

Anonymous said...

Just ignore if you want to, what can she possibly do if you don't reply. People should understand, if I don't reply or write to then it means I don't want to. Why do they keep trying.

kella met2a5er said...

I think I know how its, except for me, I want to keep those friends..but I have no time for them, so I keep ignoring their calls, untill they fedup 7adhom, and they never call again..mesakeen

and then I call them, and they`re like: yalla 5alne6la3 wella neg3ad mokan, and I always say ee lesh la halyoamain inshallah, then 6AAAFFFFF..LoL

I think Im A BAD friend, you to, LOLOL ;p

j/k

NoNoWa said...

IGNORE HER!! That is so annoying! I have a couple of ppl who msg me and believe me---I dont even remember who they are or where I met them! Thats bad, but true :(

shoosha said...

allaah e3enich!! ana kanat wa7da itdeg so i'd always divert my calls to missu :P so ignore her

Ms Loala said...

outkasty,
I loved that "dont" idea.
You're soo evil :P

mac,
LOL @ parasites :p
I take it you've been face to face with a real jacka$$.

pride-to-be,
That's what i'm doing, i guess she's not getting the message!
Welcome aboard ;)

elijah,
That's that thing! she's not getting it!

Km,
You're baddest :P

Nonowa,
omg you're so true! numbers keep appearing out of the blue!
I guess we're ignoring too much :p

shousha,
lol, that is soo mean :P

Missy said...

omgg! miskeeeeena o inty 7dich mean! bas ehya y3nee eshtaby! its not like u are/were friends! LOL

be nice to ppl .. she might end up being ur boss one day.. u knw? :P

save the number or nxt time she snds msgs ignore them!

kella met2a5er said...

hehe, thanx...I know ;p

Joud said...

this one chick i met once at a gathering kept sending me all these messages, AND CALLING; i had no idea who it was until one day i asked via sms who it was. so weird, anyways, bottom line is, ignoring totally works :->

Anonymous said...

I would say just ignore...

Ms Loala said...

Missy,
My boss?!
Hell no! She completely doesn't sound like it :\

Km,
You're welcome ;)

joud,
I am ignoring her ..

Speedo,
This it what i'm doing, hope it works.
Welcome aboard ;)

Anonymous said...

ctrl+alt+delete.lol