Will He Ever Marry You?


Every chick knows how hard it is when she puts in serious time with a guy who refuses to commit ... until he moves on to his next girlfriend, and then suddenly, he's springing for a rock. Women assume that a guy will pop the question once he finds someone he's compatible with, i.e., The One. But that's not enough to push him over the edge, according to clinical psychologist Alon Gratch, Ph.D., author of If Men Could Talk. What, then, does it take?

"Being ready," says Gratch. "In my 25 years of experience working with men as a relationship therapist, it's 49 percent the right woman, 51 percent his readiness to commit." That means that compatibility is hugely important. But if he's not in a marriage mind-set yet, he's not going to commit to anyone ... not even Gisele.

In fact, 81 percent of the married men surveyed by the National Marriage Project said one reason they decided to wed was because it was the right time to settle down.

"Of course, even if a guy is ready to walk down the aisle, he still needs to find the right person," says Gratch. "But he is more likely to meet her once he's in that marrying state of mind."

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I think I'll go along with my dear Eshda3wa's post and raise my right hand smile

P.S: Sorry i didn't comment on my last post, I'll skip sadness for now.

10 Interruptions:

eshda3wa said...

lol

*raises hands with u*

doona said...

**RAISES BOTH HANDS AND LEGS**

**RAISES HAIR WITH HAIRSPRAY TOO**

sweetd said...

hmmm...I always say zawaj is na9eeb and stop worrying about these Q's...:D theres someone out there for everyone

Big Pearls said...

men are unpredictable!

Ms Loala said...

Eshda3wa,
Way to go :P

Dandoon,
LOL i think men got the point now ;p

Sweetd,
True!
But before that, bachelorhood must be embraced :P

Big pearls,
So true!!

Navy Girl said...

hehehehe wala girl YOU ROCK 3ala this post !!! ;P

i've always though where would i ever find " true love " ?? bs now .. i think true love is just a dream lol :D

sooooo YEAH I'M SINGLE AND I'M PROUD :D yalla i'm so raising my hands with you guys !! :D

KJ said...

As a man, I have to agree!

Anonymous said...

Do I have to raise something? :p

Ms Loala said...

Navy,
It's just a dream in Kuwait that is!
Welcome to the club :P

Kj,
As a girl, may i know why? ;p

Amu,
Your hand if you please ;P

Anonymous said...

Raiser both hands and both legs up :D